About

Clarity for parents facing the hardest decisions

UNTANGLE is a parenting plan consultancy for parents navigating high-conflict divorce. We help you understand your options, organize your plan, and make decisions you can stand behind.

Why this work a note from our founder

“I kept my married last name not for my marriage, but for my children — the name my three sons carry, and the family we built together.”

My birth name carries my family’s history, and my father’s legacy as a Holocaust survivor. Later, I added my husband’s name — a practical choice, so my children and I could share one name while traveling. After my divorce, I kept it anyway. Not to hold onto the past, but to honor my children and carry forward the family we created together.

Nathalie Herschlik Amiel — Founder

What guides the work

Children first

Every decision in a parenting plan is measured against one question: what does this mean for your children, now and as they grow?

Structure over chaos

High-conflict situations thrive on confusion. Clear documents, clear language, and clear expectations take that power away.

Your decisions, made with confidence

You know your family best. My role is to make sure you understand your options before you commit to any of them.

Working alongside your legal team

UNTANGLE is not a law firm and doesn’t provide legal advice. We work alongside your attorney or mediator, helping you arrive at every conversation prepared, organized, and clear on what matters most to you.

Begin with a conversation

One calm, focused session to understand where you stand and what to do next.

Why this work a note from our founder

“I kept my married last name not for my marriage, but for my children — the name my three sons carry, and the family we built together.”

My birth name carries my family’s history, and my father’s legacy as a Holocaust survivor. Later, I added my husband’s name — a practical choice, so my children and I could share one name while traveling. After my divorce, I kept it anyway. Not to hold onto the past, but to honor my children and carry forward the family we created together.

Nathalie Herschlik Amiel — Founder

What guides the work

Children first

Every decision in a parenting plan is measured against one question: what does this mean for your children, now and as they grow?

Structure over chaos

High-conflict situations thrive on confusion. Clear documents, clear language, and clear expectations take that power away.

Your decisions, made with confidence

You know your family best. My role is to make sure you understand your options before you commit to any of them.

Working alongside your legal team

UNTANGLE is not a law firm and doesn’t provide legal advice. We work alongside your attorney or mediator, helping you arrive at every conversation prepared, organized, and clear on what matters most to you.

Begin with a conversation

One calm, focused session to understand where you stand and what to do next.